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Quote 18

When blaming others, look in the mirror…

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The main cause of stress

Many of you will admit that the main cause of our diseases and mental disorders is stress, usually arising from communication with other people. Relationships or interpersonal communication psychology between people is one of the most popular topics in mass media. Family life and professional relations are talked about while considering their various aspects. A lot of advice is given which is denied the next month, and new advice is offered. Still, the majority of this advice leads in a different direction and doesn’t illuminate the main concerns. Meanwhile, all the real problems go on their own merry way, and may be solved and disappear.

In a family or a society – communication is the basis of everything. Human self-evaluation and realization are closely related to other people. Only in communicating with others and comparing ourselves with them can we realize who we really are. But communication itself isn’t a problem. The problem begins when we don’t get approval from our environment. To be precise – when the people around us don’t behave in line with our wishes.

How many grievances and how much despair does a person experience when he doesn’t receive something he desires? Typically, contempt is a self-defense reaction, along with alienation and misunderstanding. Grievances stay with us for a long time, eroding us from within. Still, it seems that we need to do so little – to change our attitude, and the situation would change. Instead of harming ourselves, we can find joy in communication. A consequence of this would be a reduced level of stress. After reducing the level of stress, diseases and psychological blocks will disappear.

 

By saying one thing, we have others in mind

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Conflict is the best communication teacher

Many interesting things happen when we don’t agree with another person’s opinion. We can see two possibilities in a conflict situation. The first – I am angry and despise my opponent. The second – I understand what a fool I am, and try to listen to his opinion closely. If you are practicing the first communication option, it looks like you are a loner with limited amount of friends. With the second option, you are welcome in any company, and surrounded by many friends.

People say that fools are lucky. Silliness is a key which helps to conquer many obstacles. But don’t value silliness as stupidity or imbecility – these are totally different things. Real silliness is more similar to naivety. Try an experiment. Give a simple story to a few friends to read, and ask them to explain how they understood it in writing. You will clearly see their character and values in their descriptions. Everyone will only stick to things which they understand to be true for themselves, and will like it as much as it corresponds to their values. Here you should realize that each of us is important to ourselves, and that trying to change others only results in fruitless efforts. When you learn to hear and try to understand another person, you will discover many new things. Let it be a stimulus for you.

When other people try to “correct” you, there’s no need to worry. Every time someone blames you, they blame themselves in principle. If the desire to call someone a fool or egoist comes to you, it’s worth looking in a mirror and asking – what could I do to get rid of such a quality?

The biggest secret leading to successful communication is reducing your conceit to a minimum, and exalting the conceit of other people. All people want is to be significant in the eyes of others. When you throw off your conceit, and work on exalting the significance of other people, you will rid yourself of all your enemies. People will want to communicate with you kindly, because they won’t see you as a competitor. The most paradoxical thing is that your significance in others’ eyes will only rise.

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